i didn't go to match day at my school (went to husband's at his school and it wasn't awkward even though everyone knew i didn't match). it was difficult to show up to class (we were all taking a non-clinical patient doctor type class during match week) the morning i found out i didn't match. i felt kind of stupid, but whatever, i showed up. there were several others who didn't match, most of whom did not show up. i went to the pre-match day party, and it wasn't awkward at all. for me the hardest part was finding out i didn't match, and overall it was actually a relief b/c at least i knew and didn't have to worry about it anymore.